I don’t think I deserved

there is somewhere between "blindly believe anything i'm told" and "publicly crash out and deny the proof i'm being sent and act like i'm just asking questions"

no i would believe the person who said they got proof to make a bold accusation, ask to see it, and move on without accusing them of doing an unfair ban or causing a public stink. i have had friends accused of horrible things i didn't initially believe and i didn't react nearly as emotionally or aggressively as you did tonight.

So you would automatically believe something horrible about your friend without proof? sobriquet

i would not do the same thing

I feel like a DM with your concerns would have been more effective here tbh instead of starting an argument in Discord

My blog wasn’t about you