the let them theory

i'm sure a lot of you have heard about the let them theory by mel robbins but if you haven't this is for you <3 so a little bit about me, i have been a chronic people pleaser for most of my life. it has stemmed from being the eldest of 4 kids, having to be the leader and role model for most of my life. now into adulthood it has morphed into being a chronic people pleaser, so i turned to podcasts to help me. i came across mel robbins podcast and book about the "let them theory" trying to make everyone happy became impossible, because you can't. people will judge you no matter what you do in life so just do what makes you happy :) not everything needs fixing. not everyone needs convincing. let people show you who they are, and let your self stop carrying what was never yours to carry <3