While we’re on the topic

A classic sign of a #groomer: a user who takes an interest in brand new members of a community. The groomer targets someone who doesn’t have a strong social circle because they are easy to manipulate. This stuff is about power and the groomer lacks that irl which gives them low self esteem. You don’t feel a low self esteem when someone trusts you as a leader or mentor to them which makes this kinda stuff addicting to them. That’s y I’ll never be in support of a welcome committee bc I’ve seen this story before and it gets reallyyy bad. Carry on and feel free to guess who I shaded in this blog….