join up

but I think Sin and some of the events team do wayy too much going back and forth with users... like when ur running a site/org people are gonna have negative feedback and you just gotta block out the noise. Its good to let everybody feel like they have a voice, but not everybody is going to get your decisions and thats okay... just leave it that way. The blogs and essays in comments going back and forth trying to explain why you do smth a certain way is just too much

don't let it go out of style

I would never be in an open relationship, but I respect anyone that is. That takes a type of strength I will never possess