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what do you consider a "friend" ?
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what do you consider a "friend" ?
for me personally, i consider a lot of people friends, regardless of if we speak often, or at all.
for example people like hwest14 pureessence jaded naughtynacho shrimp medusaluh i have exchanged probably less than 20 messages with ever over the years, and really only interact with via blogs... but i still consider them my friend ??? i wouldnt expect them to save me in a game against like their BFF but i WOULD expect them to save me against some random noob who made their account yesterday!!!
i know some people feel the opposite tho, and believe if you dont talk to someone directly / often they are not considered a "friend" ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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just a few, I don't think it's about speaking often necessarily. most people are just acquaintances you see in games or the blog page and thats okay too
you tagged my 4 first honestly
I consider many people friends, idk just people I'm generally friendly with. But like, CLOSE friends is a different thing.
I consider jadennator1 my friend despite her being friends with dummies.
I'm not sure I consider anyone on this site currently a friend. I think I have had friends on these websites, but also only talk to them on these websites and wouldn't really outside of here/haven't kept in touch when it wasn't a thing. So I'm not sure how much the word "friend" really works for the relationships that I have on here.
You are my friend
the interesting thing is the different weights we all put on the word "friend". I'd say I'm more loose with it on places like here if we're talking about like within the confines of here I'd personally describe it as like someone who prob has a knack for easily brightening up my day/mood and they throughout a stretch of time show interest in me and what my opinion on things are while we joke and chat about non-kovaze things. idc about lengths of time since we last spoke, as long as we can have a good convo every now and then. I'd like to say I'm a pretty inviting person 🌞 there's prob a number of ppl on the fringe too and idc about overtagging but shoutouts to itsamodernlife unfortunate Cray hauntedwaves lolicapolica DOOM AngieKStan mikec51
wait no I feel exactly the same!! like we are definitely cool and we KNOW each other and I would save you against most on here just because I have always liked you
hwest14 exactlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. theres so many people on here that i literally feel like i "grew up with" its so weird but ily all 💀
same with ppl like Marilise stayc gabs i dont really talk 2 u but i def would consider you friends <3
brookie ohh that's cute <3
there’s a diff between game/blogs friends on here and friend friends. i have dozens of blogs/games friends - people i’m friendly with and i like running into them in games and blogs. sometimes we join games together and we chat about kovaze related stuff. but i know almost nothing about their personal life but “real” friends are people who i extensively chat w, i know more about their life, and i feel like a true friendship w, i have probably like 6 of those on here
Space i guess its different 4 me cus i dont talk 2 people outside of the blogs page really LMAO..............
i'm so glad to have u as a new friend <3
Holly i miss u so much.....................
brookie i miss u more..
I consider you my friend <3
i thought we were more than friends this whole time……………
PureEssence pls i didnt know you were ready to go public...................
Awww I feel honoured to be your friend 💙💙
You!
Glinda yesss exactly <3
brookie omg are you saying we don't talk and that you don't expect me to save you in a game???
Glinda f2 forever bby
This is a great question. I consider a friend someone that I'm able to talk abt most anything about, regardless of the situation. Someone who I've had a good rapport with in a while who I would message first (and not the other way around.) Pipes and I working our way there and thats on period
itsamodernlife period! 🥹🫂